After explaining to her that by holding on to the spirit of her parents, she had prevented their further spiritual journey and incarnation, she agreed to let them go bur felt a strong resistance in releasing them. She worried about being left alone and was anxious about how she would cope without their presence. After lengthy therapeutic interventions, she finally agreed to release them through the processes that were taught to her.

Excessive attachment & emotional dependence on people who have passed on is damaging for both the person still living and those who have died. Neither is able to independently continue the process of spiritual growth and evolution. Also, the transference effects from the deceased interferes with the physical, emotional and mental well being of the living being. At a fairly young age, my client suffers from exactly the same set of ailments that her mother suffered from.

When a loved one dies, it is important that you feel, express and process your grief. Then, let your loved ones move into the light. Don’t cling to them. Don’t feel helpless and inadequate without them. Don’t keep wanting or asking for them to return. Off course you will still miss them, but if you keep feeling that you cannot live your life without them, their spirit tunes into your thoughts and stays back with you, obstructing the cycle of evolution.

The best gift you can give the spirit of a loved one after their demise is the confidence that you are strong enough to cope with their moving on, and a heartfelt prayer that they may merge with the divine source.